4 Tips on How to Choose the Best Toys for Boys

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How do you choose quality toys for boys? Finding the best educational boys’ toys that spark curiosity, discovery, and a passion for learning is especially difficult.  Experts believe that the best toys for a boy’s future success are ones that also foster emotional and social development, spark his imagination, and encourage cooperative playtime with other children. Developing these types of skills through creative, educational boys’ toys and social play activities are essential for developing a boy’s ability to collaborate, innovate, and problem-solve—all must-have skills for performing effectively as an adult in the global economy.

To choose the best boys’ toys for their long-term development and success, the following four tips can guide you in finding fun, stimulating, and educational toys for boys that will engage them, plus also prepare them for interacting with others in their world.

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How to Choose the Best Toys for Boys
4 Tips on Choosing the Best Toys for Boys
Understand the Value of Play and High-Quality Toys

Quality playtime sparks children’s imaginations and allow them to safely discover the world around them. True play allows human beings to spend time enjoying their passions, with low risk for failure. Educators and experts all believe in the importance of humans to play, whether it is by themselves and with others. The best toys for boys provide the flexibility to allow them to play by themselves, cooperatively with others, and competing with others.

  • Alone PlayPlaying by oneself is often a first step in gaining confidence with an activity or skill that a child is learning. Think of an infant playing with blocks – he is building dexterity that will allow him to use for real-world tasks in the future. Later as a young boy, he may play alone drilling himself on a sport skill such as kicking a soccer ball into a goal. This can help him gain confidence for when he is competing on the field in a higher-stakes setting.
  • Cooperative Play Playing with others – and not against others – is a skill that needs to be constantly reinforced among boys.  Studies show that young boys tend to move away from cooperative play to favor competitive play as they get older. However, cooperative play provides boys with social skills such as learning to help others, sharing with each other, and exchanging ideas. Cooperative play such as building a puzzle together with a parent or assembling an elaborate train track set with a friend is necessary to develop trust in others.
  • Competitive Play While some parents have less interest in involving their boy in competitive play, justification for its value does exists. Competing against others allows boys to strive for performance improvement, to learn sportsmanship, and to win-or-lose in less low-risk scenarios (hopefully) than they may experience later in life.

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Know the Power of Play 

Play can occur in different ways and take on various forms, with each type of play having a certain usefulness for a child’s development.  Knowing the benefits that can be derived from play can help you choose the best toys for the boys within your world.

  • Critical Thinking & Imaginative PlaySome toys allow boys to escape into fantasy worlds and act out behaviors that are highly transferable to the real world. Perhaps a boy playing with a paramedic vehicle may develop interests that lead to a medical career later in life.  If the toy goes beyond imaginative play to also involve critical thinking that play pattern goes to ‘the top of the class’ of best toys for boys.
  • Social Interaction and PassionToys and activities that involve imaginative play may also help boys to become more expressive in their real-world environment. Through role-playing, boys may be more capable of expressing emotions or positively interacting with others in their real world. For example, play-acting a firefighter helping a person to escape a burning building may foster empathy for an injured person or someone in need.
  • Motor Skills & Multi Modal DevelopmentToys and play activities can also help to develop gross and fine motor skills, hand-eye coordination and other necessary physical development that helps in learning to read (ie: eye-tracking) and write (ie: fine motor skills). Creative craft kits, drawing, and coloring activities are all great activities for fine motor development, while individual and team sports are quintessential gross motor skill activities.
Look for Skill Development Through Play

Children amass skills and competencies in many ways throughout their development.

  • Baby and Infant StageStarting from infancy, they are viewing, listening, and interacting with their world to help their brain development, eye focus, and facial cue recognition. They are also communicating as best they can through crying, giggling, smiling, and reaching.  Products such as mobiles, rattles, play mats, and plush animals are all considered the best toys at this stage of development.
  • Toddler and Preschool StageTheir skill development and competencies should broaden beyond their immediate real-world environment. Toys and activities that develop imaginative play and fine/gross motor skills are excellent for this stage of their development as they experience, fantasize, and discover the world around them. Examples of the best boys’ toys for this age range include train and track sets, and role-playing costumes for firefighters, astronauts, doctors, or other community service jobs.
  • Early Elementary StageThis is a critical stage when children can either become engaged and passionate about learning, or they can become distracted and under-motivated. The best boys’ toys and activities at this age are ones that evoke curiosity or imaginative play in the real and digital worlds, since kids at this stage also need to develop skills in technology and STEM learning for their future success.

When choosing a toy for your kids, what do you look for?  Get Qurious recently asked a panel of moms and I made it on the list!  

Katriza Luna | Mommy Engineering | @mommy_engineer

When I look for a learning product/toy, I’m looking for quality.  I want a product that will withstand the hardship of being owned by a child but also ingenuity.  I want to promote creativity with products that have the same idea.  Lastly I look for longevity of the product, how long my child could use this product; will it grow with them through the learning obstacles he will encounter in the next 6 months or 2 years?

Check out the entire post on Get Qurious Blog & see what other fellow moms had to say!

Explore Where Technology Meets Toys & Games 

Today, tech toys/games are the fastest-growing segment of the overall Toy Industry.  The escalating trend of combining technology with play and learning is the result of its ubiquitous nature in a current child’s world. Since it is also absolutely-essential for their future academic learning and career success, both parents and educators are now embracing the best boys’ toys as ones that incorporate technology in play and learning for this age group.

Toys and games that help in the development of skills needed to use technology are instrumental in children’s academic success and confidence in interacting with others. In fact, studies show that if a child is not well-versed and comfortable with technology, science, and math by the beginning of Middle School, they are less likely to head into the essential STEM courses and careers later in life.

Interestingly, some of the best educational boys’ toys and games are now going beyond STEM exposure and learning, to involve STREAM – Science, Technology, Reading, Engineering, Art, and Math. The reason for this expansion from the basic STEM learning is highly-regarded, and deserving of its more recent attention in play and learning.

These 4 tips can help you confidently choose the right toy for your boys.  What tip stood out to you?  When you’re looking for a toy for your child, do you think about these concepts?  What are things you look for when you’re looking for a toy for your child? 

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50 Replies to “4 Tips on How to Choose the Best Toys for Boys”

  1. Thanks for this. I’m always searching for new toys for my son.

  2. You made some excellent points! I’m not sure how I feel about technology in toys yet. I love engineering type toys for my children, but I want them to have strong attention spans established first before they start using a lot of technology!

    1. I can totally understand that! I always look for something that will appeal to my kids without trying to overload them using technology. Have you hard of GET QURIOUS? It’s a great way introduce your kids to technology in a safe environment!

  3. Love all these suggestions! What a great idea to buy toys that encourage learning and imaginative play more than just zombie things like tv shows and electronics! Great post.

    1. You’re welcome! I’m so glad you enjoyed this post! Thanks for visiting!

  4. I love these tips! I have 3 young nephews and they can certainly be tricky to buy for!! I’ve got a 7 year olds birthday coming up so will try out these tips!

    1. That’s great Cassie! I hope these tips help you find the perfect gift !

  5. Shelbi Irby Moore says: Reply

    Maybe it’s becaus I grew up wit all girls in my house but I feel that boys are so hard to buy for! This was so helpful with my two nephews!

    1. LOL I can understand that! I don’t have girls so I don’t know how to pick great toys for girls lol! Thanks for visiting!

  6. This was an interesting post as I’ve never really thought about girl toys or boy toys! One of my boys went through a doll phase, now it’s trains. I think buying (or borrowing) whatever toys interest them is a good way to help them learn 🙂

    1. Their imagination goes a lot further than we think! So I absolutely agree with you! Encouraging those little brains is always a win-win situation! Thanks for visiting!

  7. The Salty Mamas says: Reply

    I love the categories you’ve divided the toys up into! Very thoughtful!

  8. Thank you so much for sharing this, I will pass this on to my friends with kids. They will flip for this.

  9. My son and daughter share all of their toys. I am all about educational toys and toys that encourage creative play.

    1. So glad they’ve learned the concept of sharing! (I’m sure you’re glad too lol) Thanks for visiting!

  10. Kelly Hutchinson says: Reply

    This was such a comprehensive list of toys for boys! I had two girls before my son, so I was clueless about this!

    1. lol! I don’t have girls so I have a hard time when I have to find a gift for a girl! Glad this was a useful post for you! Thanks for visiting!

  11. Paula Bendfeldt-Diaz says: Reply

    These are all great tips. It’s also very important to take your child’s interests into account otherwise they will loose interest in the toys. I have learned this the hard way! lol!

    1. haha! It happens! Don’t be so hard on yourself! Thanks for visiting!

  12. Lavanda Michelle says: Reply

    I have three girl, and 7 nephews. I find it hard to shop for my girl, however, my nephew List is always simple. Auntie I want so and so sneakers or I want a football. My girls are so much hard with various likes and interest and what they want change from day to day.

    1. haha! Maybe I’m glad I don’t have girls then? But those adorable clothes are just so hard to resist! LOL I’m glad you know your boys well enough to also know what they want! Girls are a little trickier!

  13. Good timing! I have my friends sons birthday coming up next week-thanks for the tips!

    1. You’re so welcome! Thanks for visiting and I hope these tips help you pick out a great toy!

  14. Great informative information. I love that you included all the stages of development and how these help a child progress to the next levels of learning. Boys in particular need help in finding what interests them and balance that with learning and education. Great tips!

    1. Thanks! I’m glad you enjoyed this post! Thanks for visiting!

  15. Rebecca Timmins says: Reply

    What a great post! I love to try and find educational toys that get them thinking. Anything to get them away from the screens!

    1. I can relate! My kids love TV but I’ve found buying a playset to their favorite tv show is an awesome alternative!

  16. I know there is a huge difference between my daughter and son already. Great article!

  17. Not being a mother myself, I’ve never really thought about this stuff. I will have to share with my friends though, I think they would appreciate this. Great post!

  18. Eileen Mendoza Loya says: Reply

    I have a daughter and two sons, all grown ups now. I have a grandson, 21 months old and he is wanting to learn how things work. He outgrew his shape sorter box at 11 months, then got tired of his alphabet blocks a month later. We are trying to keep up with his fast learning ability. I am at a loss at which toy to get him that would not only develop his fine motor skills, but also to encourage STEM learning. Thank you for your tips. I still have a few months before Christmas to find that perfect gift.

    1. They grow up so fast and it’s awesome that you’re proactive in really capturing what your kids need! I hope these tips help! I am sure you can use a few of these for choosing a toy for your daughter as well! 🙂

  19. It is very important to identify which toy works best for the kids. Great post!

    1. Thank you! Thanks for visiting!

  20. Christiana Acha says: Reply

    This is really helpful. Parents struggle sometimes with knowing what toys to get for their kids. Would share with a few people I know.

  21. This is a really informative article and I wish that I would have read something like this when my son was little.

  22. I agree that it’s good to expose boys, and girls for that matter, to competitive play. Competition usually only goes off the rails when parents get competitive.

  23. Thank you! This should be required reading for anyone who is buying a toy for a child. If the toy doesn’t help in at least one of these areas, forget it!

  24. Shannon Gilchrist says: Reply

    This is awesome! I have all daughter’s, so when it comes to shopping for me nephews, I’m stumped.

  25. These are fantastic tips, thank you so much for sharing! I love toys that have a learning experience as well, it is great when they are having fun and not even realizing it. 🙂

  26. (4 Tips on How to Choose the Best Toys for Boys) I did a little Christmas shopping for my grandson over the weekend and was amazed at all the choices of toys on the market now days. I always buy age appropriate toys for a five year old too.

  27. I thank you for this! This is a helpful post!

  28. Karen R. Propes says: Reply

    Thanks so much, my Grandson is two and I haven’t had any boys to buy for in a long time. I want to get good toys that will help him develop as he grows.

  29. Love this article! I have 3 grandboys & 2 grandgirls.. so this will sure come in handy when choosing what types of gifts to start looking for for christmas and birthdays!

  30. These are really good ideas. I especially like the tip on social interaction and passion.

  31. the idea are good and then i have nolittle one yet

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